Expecting father, GHETTO

07 November, 2013

My girlfriend is a total control freak!

MMAMALOME, I am a young man and I live in Francistown. I am in love with a tertiary student and its now three years. In the beginning all was smooth but of recent, she started to monitor my cellphone and Facebook account. She would scroll down all the names and I would be forced to explain how I am related to every individual who appears on my fb friend list or cellphone. She always wants to know my whereabouts and would constantly text or call and if I don’t respond in time she would get furious. Honestly mma malome, I have never cheated on her nor did anything slightly unfaithful to her, but she got jealous and mad at my female colleagues from time to time. If it’s not because she accidentally got pregnant by me, I would say goodbye to her anytime, and now I really don’t know what to do. This relationship is going nowhere and I’m at the edge of breaking down. Please help.

KARABO

Setlogolo, trust in a relationship is very important and without it the relationship is doomed to fail. You and your girlfriend need to sit down and discuss the problem and establish its cause. Maybe she has been cheated before, maybe she has discovered something which gave her an impression that you might be unfaithful or maybe it is the pregnancy that is making her feel unattractive and insecure. Having a discussion will hopefully help you get to the root of the problem and help to find a solution. I think you need to make an effort to solve the problem not only for the two of you but also for the sake of the baby.